“I am a mom. I’ve always wanted to be a mom. I feel I am a terrible mom. What is wrong with me? Why I cannot be just happy, and smile, and show how grateful I am for all those little toes? I just want to lay down. And do nothing.” I read this and …
Category: Redefining
Shift Your Mindset from Surviving to Thriving!
Before I’ll dive into some really simple and actionable tips on how to go from surviving to thriving, from I-have-no-life mode to the full bloom of awesomeness, let me make some definitions clear. Shifting mindset to thriving… When I say you are able to shift your mindset (because you are!) and that can result in …
How to Add Joy to Your Life and Why it’s Worth Your Time?
Only you are responsible for your happiness. There. I said it. If you want to add joy to your life, YOU are the only one in power to do so. I am sorry if you feel anxious or angry about it. But I am sure you have enough pleasers around you to tell you …
Do you know how to redefine and improve your mindset?
In almost every post of mine, you can read something about redefining your thoughts or redefining mommy mindset. Now it’s time for me to give you some clear instructions. I want to make a little disclosure first. Every single person reading this is different. I don’t know you, I don’t know your problems, your views. …
Everything you need to know about mommy mindset.
Everything connected to mindset or mindfulness is very popular these days. And sure, why not, but this is not one of these posts. There will be no crystals, no cosmic energy, not much of law of attraction nor manifestation. Sorry. This is all going to be about the mommy mindset. So moms need to work …
Stay at home like a boss – all the “how to” is here!
You stay at home, so what do you actually do? You are a stay at home mom. It’s around 5.30 pm, you’re on your 4th microwaved coffee, kids are everywhere (same old, same old). Your husband is coming back from work. You tell him to wait twenty minutes for dinner and maybe ask him to …
How can you make mom temper tantrum useful?
Wait, moms do that too? Temper tantrums are toddlers’ specialty and I don’t want to take their thunder away. Little kids have their well-documented reasons not to be able to handle all of the emotions around them and also, all of the injustice of the world. What is more, it is our role as mothers …
All you need to know about core values.
How do you know if you’re happy (or unhappy) right now? Do you know what should you be focusing on this year? How do you evaluate if you want to be friends with somebody or not? Core values. Your most primary beliefs. Your moral guidance. Why should you care about your core values? When you …
Why is it important to have your personal philosophy?
Your life philosophy is an informal way of seeing the world and everything about it. It’s all about you and your life. So it touches your family, your work environment, your friends but obviously, YOU are in the center, because you are the person who sees it all via philosophy prism.
Feeling guilty – why and how could you stop it right now?
Feeling guilty, once you become a mother, is very often like our second skin. Baby is crying - you're guilty. Little one skinned his knee - it's your fault. You're going back to work - mommy is feeling guilty again! Am I right or am I right?